Nathan Rubin — New York. He emailed me over and over again about his first time with a man. I called him, he sounded very effeminate, I knew it wouldn’t be his first time, one of the first lies about him. He made plans and cancelled on me a couple of times, finally he made plans for the 3rd time and told me he had a change of heart and didn’t want to be with a man.Don’t deal with him.